The future

I read something ths morning, on the newspaper..regarding the birth rate in Singapore... Then i just realise tat Singapore birth rate is declining..just like Japan... All of us are serious when in comes into a relationship especially marriage.. So we(people like me) work our butt off to get good money so we cn actually live in peace in future and of coz with our future spouse. But to make money..(people like me) dont really think tat it is really important to safe keep a relationship..Because 1st...building a relationship takes time and effort...2nd...I dont really likes dealing with breakups..(its emotionally stressing)..and 3rd..i would like to wait...maybe most importantly..i dont want to make more sins thn i already have...

But really..im abit scared tat once im ready to get married, i would be an old maid..and nobody would one me... Both us, men and women would find money in their 20s..And would get married in their 30s.. But men themselves would want to get married to younger women...those in their 20s.. Scary huh...


Sometime we think for others more than we think for ourselves... And that is why we want to wait for marriage(when we are at the rightful age to get married)
We think about family(still have responsibility for younger siblings, who would take care of parents when we have my own family to handle)..and mayb job(will my future spouse can handle the situation,will he/she able to make sacrifices)..


Who said ladies dont think about the future...?? We do think about them..and we try means and way to reach our goals..Some use the hard traditional ways..while other tries to go the easy way..


When the time comes for you to get married, u will know what to do..coz by then, yu will be all prepared..